
Since my last few blogs and reads have been rather dark, I thought I’d lighten the mood with this lovely memoir by writer, podcaster and journalist Dolly Alderton. This was lent to me by my best friend, Morwenna, who was lent it from one of her best friends. I’d also seen it in Urban Outfitters and then thought I’d better give it a read as an attempt to be ‘edgy’. I’m not one to read modern, romance books yet this one was worth the read.
If you are in a relationship or not. Whatever gender you identify as. It’s a book for you if you’re up for a change and looking for an insight into daily life. There were many relatable moments as Alderton spans from her primary school love life, the convoluted 20s and up until her 30s. With nostalgic references to MSN, disasters at house parties, memorable dates and her interesting experiences gallivanting around Camden Town, much can be appreciated. Although, based on her rather fortunate upbringing, aspects of her life could be taken with a pinch of salt-with references to her private school upbringing etc.
For me, the highlight of the book is the copious amounts of recipes, shopping lists, relatable lists, placed in between the anecdotes of her romantic experiences. Alderton draws attention to the strange decades of the 20s and 30s where some friends are getting married, children and then contrasted with some being single, which can be reassuring at any age. Her honesty, particularly as a woman, regarding her openness to friends-with benefits relationships, casual sex and drinking/drugs, which is admirable for her to share so publicly and normalises life experiences.
It’s light, conversational and easy to read, like having a conversation life with a friend, who then shows you their notes section of their phone!








